Originally Posted By: karen43
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama

So there you have it in a rather super-size nutshell. Whadda ya think?
Um, are we married to the same guy????? Karen

Yikes! Is your husband a lifelong fence-sitter who now, in mlc, makes snap decisions (that now affect you and your family in a highly negative way?) Is he a "man of God" who has managed to convince himself that he's entitled to more than just his family, and chosen "self-actualization" over stability and fidelity? Does he seem bent on punishing you for whatever by making your life one painful revelation after another, and deciding you should live in poverty while he lives in luxury--altho you supported him through 3 years of education to get to where he is now? Then maybe we are married to the same guy! Or maybe they're simply following the same old tired script....


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012