I think you're doing the right thing, Mandy. Your instincts have not driven you wrong so far. Definitely take your time. As Braveheart says, he got himself into this mess, so he should dig himself out. Your olive branch could be a willingness to be kind (but firm) if he ever contacts you again.

But, of course, as you say ... it could've been the fumes.

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim