Is it standard for H's lawyer to advise H not to talk to me...about anything other than the kids?

Does anyone think H's lawyer advised him to ask me about mediation if/when I reacted to the papers?

Is there a typical procedure to dropping the papers?

I have so many questions...and I have to wait until Monday to talk the L's legal assistant \:\(

I'm beginning my list of questions. Geez....

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home