John..you are 100% in the right frame of mind here. I have dated a few ladies now..and none of them have met Caleigh because it's way too early for that. Stand your ground on your expectations and boundaries as far as your D7 and overnight stays by AH's with your XW.. I agree with Kalni and BBJ..you do this for your D7..she should not have to deal with this added confusion..
