HM I will be joining you on that bench where no other family is. My H's family, his Mom, siblings, their spouses, nephews and their spouses are pretty much my only family. I have one sister I don't have a very good relationship with and I have a half sister that just contacted me last year after no contact for 20 years.

My H dropped another bomb last night and I am not even going to try and turn it around. I am resigned. He is incapable (or at least unwilling) to do any real work. He thinks being physically here is working on the marriage. He says he has done everything to make it work. In reality he has done nothing.

Sorry to hijack, I am just in pain as so many are here on this board. Kind of lost at the moment...


Me 54
DS19 and DS17
Married 06/1989
Divorced 01/2011