I don't actually know if I can feel a connection with anyone. Does that seem weird to anyone??
Dude, shut the hell up. You aren't even officially divorced yet and you have a conscious.... it's not abnormal to feel that way, it's hard to let go of a commitment you thought was one that would last a lifetime.
Thing is you dont have to give your heart to anyone right now. Your not that old It will come in time my friend. For right now maybe just look at it like fishing. You will reel in a lot that you will throw back before you get to the one you want to mount over your fireplace or anywhere else in your home for that matter......
I look at it like this, as long as you shoot straight from the beginning with interested members of the opposite sex then you will be fine. Be vocal about where you are at, you are not ready for serious and are simply having a good time right now. Put the ball in their court with the understanding that there is no commitment on your part to anyone until you say so.
Your last thread was a blast, I enjoyed it very much......
As I am first on here I would like a double Jack chilled up....
It will come in time my friend. For right now maybe just look at it like fishing. You will reel in a lot that you will throw back before you get to the one you want to mount over your fireplace 
or anywhere else in your home for that matter......