He stayed here last night when I got home from the gathering with some girlfriends. I got here around 7, he had already gotten pizza, then he watched Kung Fu Panda with us.
I asked him if he knew how long the chat would take tomorrow (today now)/when he wanted to chat, b/c I had some other things to do and needed to make plans...
He answered "right now we are not having a chat we are watching a movie with the kids, let's enjoy it".....???
So I did and he did. He sat in the chair with an icepack on his neck for his headache and mentioned being tired...but also laughed a lot at the movie. Nice to hear him laughing, he used to do it a lot more than he does now...
So anyway after the movie I put the kids to bed and came out; H was putting his coat on to leave. I said he looked nice, he shrugged and said, 'it's just what I wore to work', I said, "I know, but you still look nice"...He said he was meeting Anthony at the casino for a couple beers, Anthony had a poker game he was in at 7 and they were meeting up after...
I woke up at 1:45 and looked outside, H's truck was here. So he didn't leave until 9 and was back earlier than I thought he would be. Not that it matters but the shirt he wore out last night is MIA. I find that a bit suspect, where would he have taken it off it not at home? But it is not my concern....
H went to work this morning, called me on the phone from work to ask if we had a rake, he and I are going to rake the yard this afternoon. I am curious how/when he is going to bring up our chat, my goal is to be a good listener when he does. He told me he wanted to chat, so he needs to be the one to lead the conversation. I need to let him do that...
