Yes I would get this book quickly, don't talk to him quite yet until you have a strong game plan. He's already in the home so get your self ready. Read SAA and you'll have a better idea of how to handle this. NO contact is going to have to be an issue but read the book 1st.
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca