I thank you all very much and I take your replies to heart and hear them all, my decision is that 1 yes I do still care for this man, 2 no I couldnt see me taking him back in the near future, and 3 I will wait to offer the olive branch, I am sure in my head and in my heart something is not right over there but as you all point out and I am aware of there is something going on that if I was to offer the branch right now he would probably shrug it off anyway, dont know what is going on but I will leave it for now I am sure a little more infestation from her wont hurt him
