My heart is aching for you. I could have wrote everything you have this time last year. Don't fight the divorce. Take care of yourself emotionally and financially and let it be. I can tell you that once the divorce happens, it is not over.
It still continues in every way. They are still lost souls trying to find their way and they still want you in their lives even though they say they don't.
After the divorce, is when all their work begins. Of course they don't know this. They think that paradise is around the corner when they get rid of you. What a lesson they learn.
Now is the point you have to decide what you want. Do you want to move on or keep standing?
Love, Trusting
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
