Hang up or tell him to leave. You don't need to listen to him treating you this way. My W had a problem with this until she met me. Her xh sometimes used to do the same thing. Don't play the game.
He also went for full custody right up to the last hearing. Then told the judge he just did it to hurt my W and did not want custody. Just a thought. Take care.
Thanks Yenko! I know I should have done that, we were at a track meet of D8's though watching her race and even if I walked 10 feet away or something, maybe that would have worked. I won't allow that again. I used to sit there and take it every time, but I have gotten much better about that. Still working on perfecting that though!
My L, the kids' and my C, and I think H is just pushing for full custody so he won't have to pay me child support. He doesn't follow through with his actions though. He likes having a busy single life and vacationing with OW. I don't think he's really thought or even understands what life would be like if he did get full custody and put them in public school. When my son was in school before I was tutoring him 10 to 20 hours a week, and D8 has the same issues. I think he's a great dad for the 10 hours or so he puts into them, but it's much different when you're the primary caretaker of course!!! Karen