GFI, what's your Ws LL? Do you know? If you do (sorry if you mentioned it before, I just started following yoru sitch) maybe you can work with that a litle bit. This came to me with all the acts of service you 've been offering lately.
And yes, we all mature so much through this rollercoaster. It's painful but it is also an eye opener and a great chance to change things that could make our lives so much happier down the road. DAMs are all so ignorant about expressing feelings (unless it's anger or something similar) but come to think of it I never heard of anybody ever getting hurt for expressing his feelings. xxx K