Hey John,
sorry for this crap. You have every right to be upset and mad at your wife. Not because of the AH. IMO as long as you make it clear to your W this isnt about her,this is only about your D and only your D, I would say speak out and be strict and serious about this with xW. You have an obligation towards your D to protect her and although you may not be effective at all times given the circumstances, you owe it to yourself and her to, at least, state your disapprovement and objections about ANYthing that your D is exposed to that could/can hurt her.
Keep calm and do what you have to do. This is not about revenge, it's about doing what you think is right for your D.
Always here,
XXX
K

My D told me the other day she would stab her heart with a knife if I were to marry another man...


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009