W called this morning at 7:30 to talk to D7. She was sleeping and I asked her to call later. I held off as much as I could while she spoke about the internet bill at our old house. Finally, I let her have it regarding her recent actions and more specifically how they are affecting my D7. She usually has no trouble holding up her end of the conversation but this time around and for the first time in a long time she did not get in many words. As far as I am concerned, there is no defence. My D7 is not an adult and don't treat her like one especially when it comes to things of the heart. XW can do what she wants during weekends when D7 is not there but when she is, XW should act like an adult and think a little. Anyhow, I am still steaming You want to introduce a new boyfriend to your daughter...you know what...although I think it is too soon...I can go with that. BUT to have him sleep in the same room and the same bed as mom and dad and D7 used to is more than i can stomach. Come to think of it if D7 did not have her reaction last night, maybe it would not have even bothered me. One thing is sure though and this I told my XW in no uncertain terms. Grieving time and protecting her time is over for me...she is making choices to move forward...it is now time for her to get me my share of the money for the house or put it up for sale....END OF STORY....no more Mr. Nice Guy.
