Hey Mandy,
It has been a long time since I posted to you.

I personally feel that the only way to become friends after such an ordeal like MLC is via an olive branch......BUT........there are conditions on your part.

Absolutely no expectations.

He doesn't sound like he is in a good place, and I am sure he regrets the bad choices he has made.

But my biggest concern is that he will take you for a ride and play on your sympathies.

Also, your Son is a huge concern. He is healing and to have your EX re-enter the picture again at this time may not be the best thing until you are certain he is being sincere.

Mandy, perhaps you can contact him and just let him know you were thinking about him and wanted to see how he was doing. But do this without telling your Son anything at this point.

They all come crashing down eventually, but not many of them have anyone left to help them to pick up the pieces of their lives once they wake up.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.