Hi, Mandy,
I don't really have the right background to match your sitch (I have no kids, my H is still living at home, etc.), but for what it's worth, if you are feeling that way, I think you might do a tiny "testing of the waters" to see how he is inclined to treat you these days. I wouldn't stick my neck out TOO far, but you can at least check to see how hot or cold he's running toward you now. If he's nasty, well, there's your answer, and you can go dark again. If not...you have other options. I don't think it will hurt anything as long as you aren't unpleasant to him. I wish you the best in whatever you decide to do!

Peace and blessings,
Dawn


Me 45/H 47, no kids
Together since 1985; M/1992
Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001
Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues
H left 11/24/08
minimal contact, no legal action
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