You have to stop analyzing every single thing he does and go about your business. Just stop all of this..........you are getting yourself all worked up and it is not a good thing.
And he will get irritated that more you ask him questions like about when he drinks and remembering things. Forget talking about all of it now as that will set him off. I don't think he is ready for all of these talks.
Let him be, okay?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19