I remember 2 Christmas's ago I invited h and at the last minute he declined. He was in a panic to be around people and with the holidays it was just too much for him to handle.
Today, I think my h could go. You could always say h would you like to atten my Christmas party with me. I would appreciate it if you could join me as my guest and then let him think about it.
SPrize is right it's only a party in the whole grand scheme of things.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"