I remember 2 Christmas's ago I invited h and at the last minute he declined. He was in a panic to be around people and with the holidays it was just too much for him to handle.

Today, I think my h could go. You could always say h would you like to atten my Christmas party with me. I would appreciate it if you could join me as my guest and then let him think about it.

SPrize is right it's only a party in the whole grand scheme of things.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"