Oh my gosh NLT that must have been tough looking at those photos. It does sound like ow is calling all the shots. Purple tie. I highly doubt that was totally your h's idea.

Just keep praying for him.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"