I am so sorry to hear about what's been happening.
I know what you mean about sick to the stomach!
I just don't get it. He knew you were having a root canal on Monday, no? That's just odd that he watched movies with another woman......Do you think that he can't handle you needing him? Is is afraid of being needed??
This is where I just don't get DBing. I will be very interested in what Jody has to say - please share. I've been thinking about setting up a session with her.
I mean, DBing says that you shouldn't push regarding OW.....Yet where do you draw the line? I don't think that's acceptable behavoir for a H - watch movies with another woman when he knows you've had a painful, extensive procedure that day....And may need a little help or support. I guess when you say you haven't reconciled yet you are right - but IMO it did seem like you were with everything that was happening (staying at his place, ML) but the words just handn't been spoken....
I don't know what to tell you. Sorry I'm no help. I hope Jody has some good advice for you!!!!
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