Hi Sara,

OM is in Australia.

I am not going to write about how I know this for certain but I most certainly do. Suffice it to say that I know without any doubt that he arrived here on 11/04/2008 and will be leaving at 18:50 on 12/03/2008.

So that is where my W is. She has flown off to join him wherever he is and has lied to me and her entire family. W said to me that OM arrives at the end of this month - something which I suspected and now know to be a complete falsehood.

I am still in a state of utter shock and disbelief. It hasn't really sunken in yet. I am sickened to the core and she is going to pay for this. I am going to get her emails and other irrefutable evidence and expose her to her entire family.

At the moment I couldn't give two f---s whether this marriage survives. I know I have done everything in my power to save it so far.

At the moment I have not responded to any of her SMSs and will not for now. I have nothing whatsoever to say to her - in fact I don't know how I am even going to be able to look at her tomorrow.

What a vile, adulterous, dishonest slagheap of a person I am married to. She is not deserving of the title of "wife".


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)