Chicki- I am in the Orlando area. It was downright summer-like today! Just got back from watching the shuttle launch with the kids...totally awesome!
Steve - Good to hear from you. How are things working out for you? I'll look for a thread...
FLTC - Yeah, my sitch isn't all that different than Frank's except that my W really doesn't even understand that she is screwed up! Fortunately, I am OK financially, so I am just looking at the cost of divorce as an investment in my future!
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I think there comes a point where you have to stop being a doormat.
Amen brotha!
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have you ever told her this is just plain unaccepatble.
I simply told her that she had to chose between marriage and divorce...that means give up the A and go to counciling or file for D. She wouldn't do either, so after 1.5 years of this cr@p, I finally filed.
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Why is she angry that you want a divorce?
Her sense of entitlement is amazing, but she basically thinks that she deserves this life that I provide for her and the kids despite the fact that she does not love me and is sleeping with another man.
At a deeper level, I think it is because her actions are going to impact her children and she does not want to have to live with this guilt.
Not sure if that helps anybody out there, but that's the best that I can figure out.
Thanks for checking in on me...SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
