I first want to say I am sorry you have found yourself here, but welcome to Divorcebusting.com. I hope you find the encouragement and support you will need to survive through your marital issues. Taking care of yourself is the most important thing you can do. Then focus on your marriage.
The people on these boards are the most amazing resources you could ever find. They will offer advice, listen, and lift you up when you are down. I know to most around here, they consider each other "family".
Again, I am sorry you have found yourself in this situation, but kudos to you for wanting to change, and work on your R/M. It takes courage and strength from within to make a lacking M turn around for the better. Know everyone here will support you in any way possible, including myself. One of the first things I recommend is for you to go buy and read Divorcebusting or Divorce Remedy. Make them your go to!! Then re-read them!! They are excellent resources and referred to a lot around here!
Please feel free to contact me if there is anything I can do...just hit the notify button...it will send me a notice you need me
PLEASE, take care of yourself!
((((Comingundone)))) <-----virtual hug 2 you!!!
cdbmod
"When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion"
"Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing to do. But to hold it together when everyone would understand if you fell apart,that's true strength"