Addicted I haven't read your thread at all, but in your words here on peace's thread I feel like you still have hope even though you've been through much pain. Like I said to peace, even if your children are older, D leaves a painful mark on their lives.
maybe i do have hope but not holding my breath. not making any effort. I said to myself that the ball is in his court. for sure i'm doing the detaching and taking care of myself. My heart tells me it's over.
to make a point about him... I have not talk to him for a few weeks now (not a word). Since the "bomb". I don't sleep in our bed. Not even look to him. He seems happier. So I know I'm doing us a favor.
i'm around here for support I guess. or vent maybe. i hope that's okay. or to give support to some H. if it would help them. reading some post helps a lot.
