NYC and Chicago in June...There are worst places to be....especially since you like to shop!!!! I also think that it is positive that he wants you along and find your reaction a little....I am searching for the politically correct word here... Anyhow K, like I said before every situation is different and you have some feelings inside of you that need to be resolved if this reconcilliation is going to work....you are not there yet and maybe it is a blessing in disguise that your sitch is moving along at a snails pace. That MC will help you both I am sure. Don't rush things.... I for one would be very happy to receive such an invitation...from a friend....or a family member...but only you know what your heart is saying. As always Maria, I am pulling for you to find happiness. Have a great time with your lovely friends this weekend....have a couple of drinks and relax.