The NC is for you to make yourself a better person and friend to your h. They will miss you and then when they are around you and they like the new you they will keep crawling back for more.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"