It almost drives you crazy when they tell you they have something to say and then leave you hanging on for a day before they tell you. And then when they tell you, it is something stupid like "I still dont know what I want".
The best thing you need to do is stop trying to figure out what he could want to say.
He better hurry up and figure himself out otherwise there is going to be some other very lucky guy in Iowa giving and receiving love with a happy BobbiJo.