The circumstances around him coming home.........I'm not exactly concrete on this. I didn't even know he was moving back until that morning. This is one of the things I have to get an answer to. I've been trying to get someone to watch the kids for me while he and I have this talk. I plan on covering expectations, needs, and so on. I also plan on asking him to cut all contact with her. You are so right, Kat, I don't feel any better just because he moved home. I feel like he's still cheating and it's causing more and more hurt.