Onward and Upward - Part 8!

[glamgirl]

My 2 hot buttons with h are money and showing up on time to watch the kids. Both of these issues spark flames that lead to a big fire.

I understand BND, but I really don't ask h for much. I just would like him to be responsible for showing up at an agreed time. If I didn't have s20 here I wouldn't be able to go to work.

Also s20 is NOT watching the kids he is sleeping and usually it's that h couldn't get himself out of bed to watch them, now this last time was a conference call, but he could have gotten here early and took it here. Not planning!

This might not seem like a big deal to some, but taking responsibility is huge for me. I have talked to h about the money and honoring the time committed to the kids until I am blue in the face. I just have to let it go and not let it get me. Upside running on the treadmill sounds like a great idea.

I just think h needs to be responsible. Not only with his money but his time.

I haven't been on FB much but will try to do some more navigating over the weekend. I was having internet issues earlier. This is what I miss about my h the most. He is an educated computer geek. I like it though. I find him brilliant in that area, since I know so little or pretend that I do.

The computer is my best friend when it works just fine.