OMG!!!! My h used to tell me the same things. The feelings are there anymore, he wanted a D, I don't love you like that anymore. My C used to tell me that the feelings ARE there but they are just stuffing them so they don't feel the guilt and shame.
Your C might be right about your h not being ready to hear those things. It took my h 18 months before he even went to C because he thought there wasn't anything wrong with him. Then it was a year of him going every week to get to the point where he knew what he needed to do. He then knew it wasn't just me saying he was depressed, his C and co workers were too!
Keep that PMA up. It helps around him and it definately helps you!!!
