holy crap - yeah you scared me a bit. I thought OMG! he found me here too!! tee hee....he's a snooper too. I've caught him snooping on my phone. not cool.
I would absolutely love a dumb spouse's perspective, because this blubbering idiot, smothering stuff, is sincerely driving me nuts. I told him today on the phone that if he doesn't give me space I'm going to create it and separate.