Please send me good karma!!....I'm gonna need it!

[Silent Chrleader]

Thank you so much for your re-assurance, YR. I am soooo scared! And in the MC yesterday, H started out with "those feelings just aren't there anymore and I want a divorce", and he was crying and he really meant it!! And I was expecting the C to discuss some of the symptoms of depression and MLC and caution him to not make such big decisions at this time, or something!! {Like C has talked a LOT about to me during IC}. But C just looked at me and said basically "He sounds like he's pretty clear." I about died!

I have asked C before why he doesn't say the same things he says to me when H and I are in session together, and he says because H is not ready to hear it. But my feeling is "so we just let him walk out the door?" I really question this practice. I know C can't tell us what to do and must "remain neutral" and all that [he says he is there to "mirror" the situation], and H really likes this C, so I know he wouldn't entertain a change in C. This C is VERY good at IC and has helped me a lot, but I just wonder about his methods for MC.

I am really scared! Keeping up the PMA will be a real challenge for me I think........