Nope...stop it...negative talk. I remembered when I got married I thought divorce would NEVER be an option. Then, I made the biggest mistake of my life and all of the sudden divorce was an option every day. Every thing he'd do I'd think "I can't live like this. I'm done." We are FINALLY at a place where I told him "I'm not going anywhere." I hate that I ever got to the place of thinking I would leave.
I'm thinking about the phone thing. I could see myself doing that. Not really thinking about it too much. Maybe thinking subconsciously...it's a good lawyer just in case, you never know. He might give up on me, he might go back to the way he was....you just never know.
You guys are in a great place. I can see why you'd be concerned/ticked about seeing that. But, I wouldn't worry about this. You can call your lawyer at any time, too. She knows this. You are on fresh grass right now.........patience, hope, patience.
