It all rings so true. I have to stop trying to save anything - and try to focus on myself.
I have posted at dating sites and saved some of the profiles I like - but have not yet paid for the service... still iffy on that... just doing the "winks"... If any "wink" back at me maybe I'll take the next step.
I have my daughter this weekend and a family party - so things should be good for this weekend anyway.
I'll keep checking in occassionally.
Thanks for your support.
Me:40 / W:33 / D:3 T:7.5/M:4 D Day: 1/24/08 Legal Separated: 6/12/08 BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08 Suspect BF pre-dates D Day