Thank you Jeff and Faith.

It all rings so true. I have to stop trying to save anything - and try to focus on myself.

I have posted at dating sites and saved some of the profiles I like - but have not yet paid for the service... still iffy on that... just doing the "winks"... If any "wink" back at me maybe I'll take the next step.

I have my daughter this weekend and a family party - so things should be good for this weekend anyway.

I'll keep checking in occassionally.

Thanks for your support.


Me:40 / W:33 / D:3
T:7.5/M:4
D Day: 1/24/08
Legal Separated: 6/12/08
BF who sleeps over: confirmed 11/10/08
Suspect BF pre-dates D Day

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