Surrendering to hope

[AliSuddenly]

Hey ITH,
Well, if you are sure that theres no ow and you HAVE snooped, then that in itself is a positive. I didnt suggesst that there could be one becuase I had one in mine.. its becuase his behaviour is confusing, he's doing without physical intimacy (why?) he's not really willing to work on the R and also, from things you said about him posting messages online (not sure what that was, but you mentioned a 25 year old?) so I think it pays to not be naive. There were no clues with my ex either, but then, I didnt have access to his email. Hopefully, thats not the case with you, fingers crossed, as I think noone stands a chance until an ow is out of the picture.

The thing about the abusive/passive agressive stuff.. you did say that he asked you about your day and then when you answered he said you were being boring.. but I get from that some anger in him? From what you have said, you havent been 100% honest about some of your stuff that may give him reason to be hurt and maybe therefore angry at you, or resentful, so maybe thats what I am picking up on.

At least yuo are still in the house! Who would have thought that a few weeks ago !? How are things this evening?

Al x