Mattress/box tomorrow. Frame 7-10 weeks. I told W today that I was setting up the mattress/box without the frame. She was kind of puzzled by that and made some comment about it being stupid to set the bed up on the floor before the frame comes. So I don't know if she's still on the fence about sleeping in bed with me or what. But I don't care. I'm setting the bed up.
MC, oh, don't worry, I'd never mention it to her. I just feel like it's almost her way of saying to herself, if things go back to the way they were I still can call the lawyer. I still contend that things weren't THAT bad, but I'll accept that she had/has issues that she's not liked and it seems that the things she's complained about that I've changed she's noticed but she's not ready to trust that they're permanent so she's still waiting. I just hope she doesn't wait too long. Because even as good as things are going, last night on the drive to pick up S20 I realized just how tired I am of the fight. Without a few simple words from her I can see myself getting to the point where I'm done.
And I hope we don't get there.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.