Enjoy tonight. Have fun. The counseling will help you both tremendously.
As for the trip, take up the invitation w/ conditions --- if your marriage is moving in the right direction this summer, then you'd love the time w/him.
Also, you said:
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Maybe I should have explained myself more?
The sad answer, in my opinion, is YES. You feel like you've made yourself perfectly clear, but he is a DAM, so he didn't get it. Thus, you need to make things perfectly clear and literally spell it out for him b/c he doesn't get it. Not at all.
Hang in there. Have fun and MC will be soooo incredibly good for you both.