You have children, I don't know what ages, but D affects them forever. Be sure you have left every stone unturned in trying to save your M before you walk away. Follow mC's advice those ladies know the ground you have travelled and will be kindred spirits. Good luck!

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.