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Just checkin' in on you today Lost. Have a great time.


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(((BG))) and (((S&S)))

84 here today. I will take it. Yet home is still a pain in the a**

We had a joint USD account - well today W withdrew most of it. Wasn't much. Too funny. I have now changed the online password so she is out of luck for anything else.

Desperate times? Sure making a mess of her position.

Will be talking with S13 tonight. I think W has K's convinced that the only thing that would be different if we separated would be that they wouldn't see us everyday. Even at their age, need some reality. Will not mention the A at this point.

I REALLY HATE THIS. Walking away seems sooooO much easier these days. Sorry for the pity party!


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Hang in there bud.

And have a great time. Enjoy the sun.

And give OM a good cursin' for me too!


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Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

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Use this time to recharge your batteries. Think about it when you want to. I know easier said than done. Getting a way will give you a chance to get a different perspective.

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(((kat))). Thanks. I know that is what I need. And was on my way until the BS with the $$. At least the password change gives me peace of mind for the future.

I will try - I will.


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Anything else you need to safeguard? Any other accounts? Savings in both your names? She's going to do whatever she can right now.

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No - that should be it. She doesn't have access (now) to a joint line of credit.

Wow - who is this woman pretending to be the M of my k's?

Thanks (((wdid)))


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Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
No - that should be it. She doesn't have access (now) to a joint line of credit.

Wow - who is this woman pretending to be the M of my k's?

Thanks (((wdid)))


This ought to make her spin...

As far as who that woman is? She is a sadder and more pathetic version of the lovely woman you once knew. She is still unwilling to see that whatever is missing is in her, not you. Its just so much easier to make it about you, rather than having to do the hard work of self-realization.

Have some fun.


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(((S&S)))

Thanks. S13 and I are off to a hockey game tomorrow and basketball on Sunday. Add the nice weather - and I will do my best to have fun.


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Now she is playin with the family $?? How pathetic!
When I was in Phoenix back in Sept alone with my mom and sister and family it was so calm.......I actually considered not coming back.....of course I did.

LIS if you need to chat or anything hit me up on FB.

I also agree with S&S...I live this like you bro everyday....you know it's not you!!!

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M 11yrs
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6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage
6-11-08 I found out about OM

7-16thru7-18 she tried didnt work!

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