My husband adamately won't give me access to his cell phone bills and has passworded his phone since he has moved back home. He still has to work with the other woman. How do I truly know that it is over? Is he not ready yet? Or is he hiding something?

He and she are both musicians. Occasionally they have public gigs, but he doesn't want me there. He tells me "I don't come to your job or that it will rub our relationship in the other woman's face. Why does he continue to hurt me and keep me in the closet?


Taking it Day by Day. There's gotta be a light at the end of this dark tunnel.