Belle-
last year my H went to Fl for Thanksgiving and then NY for Christmas and New years. And on all 3 holidays, he ended up sending me a text message wishing me a happy -whatever day it was-.

My H said that he did realize that he missed me while he was away.

ARE you spending it with your family in WI? If not, does he know you aren't actually leaving town?

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing