Hey PNT.

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Also, if his mom is truly against me, I suspect that she'll use their time in the car to try to talk him out of moving back in with me.
Ahh...PNT, don't worry about this. Our gut reaction is to defend our S. I imagine that your H will defend your honor if your mom starts talkin' smack, and in your defense he'll verbally give your MIL reasons for the two of you to be together...and verbalizing it will reinforce his decision. We all know about this funky dynamic...especially with our parents. Heck, my W still defended me during WA-mode. Look at this as an opportunity for your MIL to push your H into defending you. And if she doesn't talk smack, then it will be fine too. Either way, I don't think you can lose.

jethro