He's back, now what?

[Sugar and Spice]

Mo4 What were the circumstances that led to his return to your home? Were any ground rules set or did he just come back?

One thing he said was that it was easier to come home and try to work things out but if that didn't happen he had somewhere to go.

This statement really bothers me. It seems to me that as long as he knows he has "somewhere to go" then he is still playing both sides of the fence.

Listen to Kat, shes a smart lady. You need to set some boundaries for yourself so you can reclaim some of your power. I agree with her as well that if you setting some boundaries causes him to leave, then its his loss. If he is 100% ready to commit to you and your M, then he will not have an issue with some "rules", if he does then he is just cake-eating and its to be avoided like the plague. I'm not saying this because I'm some great DB'r, more from the stance of learn from my mistakes. We are her for you.