What if?

[lost_in_space]

Hey Tom. Just popping in - haven't been around to others much lately and need to catch up.

Sticking to your stand on things = good (referring to Wed night).

I am in PHX now - weird...

Stay strong bud.

[Babygirl]

morning tom!! hey check your mail!!!
Hugs

[marriedCrazy]

SIL is 180 out from the W. She does not exhibit any of the traits that my W does; so it kinda thwarts the thought that these personality traits of BPD are totally environmental. She's a few years younger than my W; so 1) she doesn't remember life with her father in the same house, as does my W; 2) she was the baby, so her R with her mother was probably different.

We've talked at length several times since the W went to rehab in 2006 about my W. SIL came up to OH to take care of the kids when the W first went in the hospital. SIL doesn't understand the behavior but has witnessed it for some time. She doesn't like it either. She's a very devout family person who is active in her church. Basically, W is treating my just she has her past boyfriends. W doesn't feel that our R is any different than those.

[marriedCrazy]

I am in PHX now - weird...

I don't need to be in PHX now. Would like to be; but definitely don't NEED to be.

Thanks LIS

[marriedCrazy]

morning tom!! hey check your mail!!!
Hugs

Will do.

[marriedCrazy]

Well here's another baby step.

Got a call from the W on her cell. She wants me to send her a test text message to see if her provider has corrected a problem with her texting ability on her phone.

I would assume that she could have called at least a dozen other people for this as we have been dark when apart. But she called me; so I obliged. Nothing else said; but favor was provided.

food for thought.

[Babygirl]

well i think its good you responded! she asked, you did it, and it didnt kill ya lol!

glad you got your email!
hugs

[Little Engine]

Funny she would ask you. Wonder what "message" she is trying to send to you by doing that?

[Tawnya]

{{{Tom}}}} good afternoon..thought I'd hop by and say howdy and thanks for checking in on me

Hope you are having a good day..so what crazy weekend plans do you have?

Tawnya

[marriedCrazy]

Funny she would ask you. Wonder what "message" she is trying to send to you by doing that?

I'm curious; but not going to ponder.

She gave me an explanation as to why she stayed the night with dysfunctional BFF last night. Seems that when BFF's H/xH is staying in the condo; BFF likes W to stay with her so BFF's H/xH isn't so mean to her. W says he's nice when she stays over. I just replied "to each his own."

Smells like a bunch of bovine excrement.