Oh one more note. A very sweet story that should give y'all hope that the WAH can change his mind!
Maybe a week ago hubby and I were texting back and forth about moving in together and I asked if he was scared and he said "of what?" and I said "of things going back to the way they were" I was getting cold feet in a way and I got kinda spooked even though nothing bad had happened. He was like "no, I really think we have a shot at this" I asked him why he said that since he had never felt that way before and he told me not to question it. So I haven't. But it melts my heart. I wish I had saved the message so I could read it over and over again.