Yeah, I meant to say what you and HER are doing is good...not me. Typo.
You trying to get us in trouble with the Mod's WDID
I got a reply from OMW. She has proof that OM has had another GF since late Spring and probably before. He hasn't been home to see his kids since May. He's coming home for the 3 days before Thanksgiving and Christmas but is heading out Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve's so he can spend the holiday with his new GF.
Nice Huh?
Ok, so I'm glad she emailed. I almost replied to her that he had a GF long before Spring, but I didn't think it'd accomplish anything. But it does feel good for me. If he's got a GF now, I can't see a reason to be in contact with my W. Not that he might not still IM her at work once in a while, and I know he's a lier, but I can't see his new GF liking him talking too much to an old affair partner.
So get this. W IM's me first thing this morning. She asks if I need to come up to the Refinery this morning for anything? I said I did have some work that I COULD do there, and Why? She replied that she really had a hankering for a cup of cappacino (or how ever you spell that word) and if I came up, would I bring her one.
Perfect opportunity to show her what a nice guy I am
So I went up, got her coffee and sat down in her office for a bit. And she was talking and talking. At one point, after about 15 minutes, I said "ok, I need to get going" and she said "you don't have to be in a hurry" so I sat there a while longer and we just talked. And it was GOOD. I started to get up to leave and she said, "do you want to go out with me while I smoke"? So I did. After her smoke, I said, "well, I better get going and she said "you can come back in for a bit if you want". So I did. It was like she didn't want me to leave.
It's terribly hard to not get your expectations up, but man, things sure seem to be looking like she's figuring it out.
Talk to everyone soon.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.