Worse before Better?

[Sophie]

Here is something I am being urged to offer to H since he asked if there was a prayer for mediation.

The only way he will be freed of financial troubles is if we live seperately under one roof. It's a tough one, but it was suggested because of the financial facts and that we are amicable.

So, if there is an OW...that wouldn't work.

If this is because H wants money for himself, financial agreements could be mediated if we lived seperate in this house. Consolidate households. If seperate households are a must for him, then we're at a stalemate because there is NO MORE MONEY.

I can't wait to have an intelligent conversation with a lawyer...unlike the conversations with H....he usually just sits there and says 'i don't know' 'i don't know'.....