Another wife hit by the bomb #3

[Tawnya]

{{{Tom}}} thank you for saying that..I am guessing you mean he was thinking because he was paying attention to the Love Dare stuff (when you said he was thinking before we even got to the movie)..I appreciate that..I figured he was thinking, tho I dunno what he is thinking about LOL (if we only knew, but then would we want to know?)

{{{LE}}} thank you..I do respect his position and I've told him that I feel as strongly about my conviction to stay as he does to go..yeah h's wall is up, he let it down for a bit before the movie, but it's probably back up now LOL..I figured it would be tho..

I will have to go back and reread that..I remember it when you said it..but don't remember everything she says about it..I guess you are right and being in control is a BIG deal for my hub..

I forgot to mention that he said that at dinner..we were talking about something and he said "for the first time I"M in control, nothing and no one else (he meant God as well, we had been talking about that in some way, so I knew that was what he meant by the nothing part)..so him feeling in control is a big deal for him right now for some reason..(I don't mean that flip, I just mean it is a big deal for him to let ME know he's in control or for him to feel in control..LOL)

Thank you guys for checking in..I appreciate the male perspective on this more than you know

Tawnya