Living with a spouse still in an affair....and proceeding with a divorce....is absolutely the most painful experience ever. Her admitted "love" between them....and her desire to have full custody and everything she "deserves" wears a person down........
The absolute disrespect, lack of any trust, and any thoughts of any honesty from them turns me into a very bitter WAH. I want nothing more then to punish her for what she is doing to me and our family.
I am in pretty much the same boat. A W in an affair. Lied about it for 5 months. Her family supports her (babysits while she goes out with him) all while telling me there is no one else.
Most friends, co-workers, & family tell me she isn't doing anything wrong... I should just move on and be happy.
I appreciated that link. That is good advice... revenge, bitterness, and anger gets us no where fast. It is hard, but we have to forgive and take the high road although it isn't fair.
I feel for ya c54. Hang in there. We will make it.
