T glad you are back with us. I think you did well on telling H you didn't control him and he didn't control you. That showed him you respect his position. H has his wall up and like breakaway's H his reaction sounded like something I would do. In DR Michelle says that there is nothing wrong with manipulation. People don't like the connotation that comes with that word, but as she states, everyone does it starting in childhood. You might want to go re-read that because it is just something that we all do. Granted no one likes to feel that they've been controlled, but it happens everyday!


M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.